Saturday, May 19, 2012

Manners Speaks

A. All talks accept to be good, (QS 4/114, and QS 23/3), mentioned in the hadeeth of the Astrologer SAW:

"Those who accept in GOD and again let the day end of said able-bodied or bigger still." (Bukhari Muslim)

2. Should allege acutely and correctly, as in the hadeeth of A'ishah:

"That the words of the Astrologer Muhammad was consistently bright so that it can be accepted by all who hear." (Abu Daud)

3. Balanced and abstain drawn-solution, based on the Astrologer SAW:

"Those who abhorrence me and batten batten abroad from me afterwards in the day of acumen is the being who acted in a lot of allocution and talk." Again it was said: O Messenger of Allah we accept to apperceive the acceptation of ath-tsartsarun and mutasyaddiqun, again what is the acceptation of al-mutafayhiqun? Again the Astrologer SAW said: "Orang2 snob." (Tirmidhi and dihasankannya)

4. Abstain a lot of talk, because not anguish arid to hear, as in the hadeeth anecdotal by Abu Wa'il:

Ibn Mas'ud ra was consistently accomplished us every Thursday, the man said: O abu ABDURRAHMAN (Ibn Mas'ud title)! If you ambition to advise us every day? Again Ibn Mas'ud said: Surely no one is befitting accomplish your wish, I just anguish about your boring, because I will never ask for such a astrologer SAW and said he afraid about arid us (HR Agreed alaih)

5. Repeating the words that are important if needed, from Anas that the Astrologer SAW was speaking again he SAW echo 3 times so that all who apprehend it to understand, and if he came home SAW SAW anyone again he was adage accost 3 times. (Bukhari)

6. Abstain a apocryphal saying, based on the hadith astrologer SAW:

"Behold a assistant of said one chat to amuse GOD Almighty that he did not anticipate that will get so so acclaimed by the Almighty GOD for HIS amusement of the being until afterwards the Day of Judgment. And a man absolute a individual chat acrimony of Almighty GOD that he thinks will not so, again the Almighty GOD that this almanac until the Day of Judgment. "(Tirmidhi and he said saheeh hasan hadeeth; aswell anecdotal by Ibn Majah)

7. Steer bright of acrimonious debate, based on the hadith astrologer SAW:

"It is not a humans adrift afterwards accepting advice to them, but because too abundant arguing." (Reported by Ahmad and Tirmidhi)

And in addition hadith the Astrologer SAW mentioned:

"I assure the abode that was based anchorage for alienated agitation even admitting he was, and I agreement a abode in the average of heaven for those who abstain lying even in jest, and I agreement a abode in heaven for a acceptable top akhlaqnya." (Abu Daud)

8. Steer bright of angry words, denounced, cursed, based on the hadith astrologer SAW:

"It is not a accepter if censorious, and speaking mela'nat vile." (Tirmidhi with a saheeh sanad)

9. Abstain a lot of jokes, based on the hadith astrologer SAW:

"Truly an angry ancillary of GOD Almighty in the approaching Day of Acumen is the being who brand to accomplish humans laugh." (Bukhari)

10. Abstain cogent humans abasement and calling anniversary added with a bad title, based on the QS 49/11, aswell in the hadith astrologer SAW:

"If anyone tells you something and again he goes, the adventure was a authorization for you to accumulate it." (Abu Daud and Tirmidhi and he menghasankannya)

11. Abstain falsehood, based on the hadith astrologer SAW:

"Signs of actor there are three, if he speaks lies, if he promised to abjure and if accustomed the authorization he was treasonous." (Bukhari)

12. Abstain abuse and pitting, based on the hadith astrologer SAW:

"Do not backbiting anniversary other, and do you guys abhorrence anniversary other, and you do not say annihilation awful to anniversary other, and you do not abstain anniversary other, and you do not win-ghibbah one another, and become agents of GOD are brothers." ( HR Agreed alaih)

13. Accurate and fair in praise, based on the hadith of the astrologer Muhammad Abdurrahman ibn abi Bakrah from his ancestor saying:

There's a acclaim others in foreground of the person, the Astrologer SAW said: "Woe to you, you've aching your brother! You accept aching your brother! "(2 times), again he SAW said:" If anyone wants to acclaim others in foreground of him, say: Enough's so and so, may GOD mencukupkannya, we do not absolve the one ancillary of GOD, and again say fit the reality. "(HR Agreed this is lafzh alaih and Muslim)

And from Abu Mujahid of Ma'mar adage anyone adulation an official angle in foreground of the bin Aswad Miqdad the extravagant, again Miqdad yield beach and baptize on the face of it, again said: The Astrologer ordered us to baptize beach in the faces of humans who addicted of praise. (Muslim)

Manners HEAR

A. Shut up and yield apprehension (QS 50/37)

2. Do not cut / cut talks

3. Exposes the face of the apostle and do not about-face abroad from it all in accordance with Shari'a (not to allege with the adverse sex)

4. Not arresting his brother even admitting he already knew, all sins are not the words.

5. Not feel in his affection that he knows bigger than to talk

Manners REFUSE / DO NOT AGREE

A. Sincere and blessed attributes to abstain the limelight

2. Abroad from the acclaimed and able-bodied accepted to

3. Refusal accept to abide admiring and gentle, and not adopting your voice

4. Rejection should be abounding with arguments and taujih

5. Abstain the accident of acute debate

6. Should activate by cogent the accuracy aboriginal afore commenting on the wrong

7. Rejection does not abjure the Law

8. Things that should be discussed is important and can be implemented and not something that has not happened

9. If the debris should be demography into annual the akin of ability the speaker, not to allege above the capabilities of the speaker, who abhorrence a balloon for himself and his religion

10. If the debris should be accurate to accumulate it clean, and abstain abhorrence and alarmist disease.

Wamaa taufiiqi illaa biLLAAH, 'alaihi wa tawakkaltu ilaihi uniib.

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